On November 14, our 80’s+ Learning Series will be treated to a special conversation with Leslie Gelfand, certified Death Doula. A Death Doula, or Death Midwife, is one who facilitates this sacred transition. The doula assists in the process, much like a doula in the birthing process. That process is different for everyone, but may include visualization, meditation, massage, creative and traditional rituals and practices. They bring holistic and spiritual care, as well as support and honor to the process. They can facilitate positive and empowering life plans, provide psychological and social support, optimize physical comfort, help educate about new and progressive options.
Death Doulas care for the whole person, taking into account patients’ emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical factors. They provide invaluable assistance in three notable areas of holistic support:
Legacy: We are all born and we all die; it’s what we do in the middle that creates our legacy. What we leave behind is far more than simply wealth and possessions. We can share our story or give wisdom, advice, love, and support even after we have passed. And in doing so, give the future a glimpse of your essence – who you were, how you saw the world, and what gave your life. Death Doulas can help patients with the powerful, uplifting process of developing a legacy plan.
Presence: The last phase of our life can stir fear and anxiety as we each face our end-of-life. This is simply because we have not walked this path before. Having someone present with the experience and training in such a time can bring a sense of comfort and familiarity to the otherwise unfamiliar. Death Doulas provide holistic support as they accompany individuals and their families before, during, and after death.
Dignity: Everyone wants to have a positive passing where they maintain dignity and honor as they exit life. We all have our own values, traditions, and belief systems that will influence our vision and expectation of what that would look like. Creating an environment that represents that vision is important. This along with developing a legacy and presence work, is what an End-of-Life Doula brings to you and your family.
Please note: This group is intended for the those aged 80 and above.